{"id":4634,"date":"2016-09-27T16:06:30","date_gmt":"2016-09-27T23:06:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/?p=4634"},"modified":"2016-09-27T18:06:21","modified_gmt":"2016-09-28T01:06:21","slug":"september-27-2016-belonging-beyond-right-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/life-stories\/september-27-2016-belonging-beyond-right-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"September 27, 2016 &#8211; Belonging to each other &#8211; beyond right and wrong"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_button\">\n                            <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n                                <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/plugins\/facebook-button-plugin\/images\/standard-facebook-ico.png\" alt=\"Fb-Button\" \/>\n                            <\/a>\n                        <\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/life-stories\/september-27-2016-belonging-beyond-right-wrong\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\"  width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div><div id=\"attachment_4635\" style=\"width: 601px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4635\" class=\" wp-image-4635\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage.jpg\" alt=\"Filoli as we head into fall\" width=\"591\" height=\"591\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/filoli-sep-16-collage-200x200.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 591px) 100vw, 591px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4635\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Filoli as we head into fall<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Listen to this post:<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-4634-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/20160927-Post-Redo.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/20160927-Post-Redo.m4a\">http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/20160927-Post-Redo.m4a<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Where we live in Marin County, California, it is a sea of blue \u2013 political blue. I don\u2019t know the percentages, but overall, California leans towards the liberal end of the spectrum, the San Francisco Bay Area even more so, and Marin is right up there, amongst the most liberal counties in the country. Being surrounded by a large majority of people who share our views, it\u2019s really easy to speak freely and openly \u2013 to share our reactions to what\u2019s going on in the world, full of opinion and certainty as we do. Earlier this year, I learned that one of the regular members of one of our groups, believes differently. She is a self-described \u201cstaunch conservative.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This is stretching me as a leader and as a person. Mostly we don\u2019t talk politics, but there have been a couple of times, that the conversation moved into the political arena. We all stayed respectful, but I felt the tension and I knew it was upon me to hold the space, to keep it safe for everyone. I said something about how our views can be woven into deep parts of us and we may need to agree to disagree. I want our shared painting time, to be a refuge from stress as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Then, last week, I forgot myself.\u00a0 I walked into the kitchenette where my mom and another person, were quietly talking politics. Without thinking, I shared how I had emailed a friend in Britain about what might happen, if the person I oppose ends up our next president. I wasn\u2019t mindful of the volume of my voice, I just spouted. Then I realized where I was and reminded myself <em>who<\/em> I was \u2013 the leader of this little group. Oh, gosh. I felt awful. Did she hear me from the opposite end of the room? I couldn\u2019t risk not knowing \u2013 I had to ask. When she next asked me for help on her painting, I knelt down at her table and softly asked her: did you hear me when I was talking in the kitchen? She said she hadn\u2019t. Oh, good.<\/p>\n<p>But then I felt I needed to tell her why I asked. I told her that I was with those who share my views, and I indulged in what I called \u201ctribal talk.\u201d I said I was sorry and I reiterated I wanted to do all I can, to make sure she always feels safe and a sense of belonging amongst us. This started a short conversation between the two of us, about opening to those whose views we don\u2019t share. I recently listened to a level-headed conservative person, to try to understand what is behind their stance &#8211; what values I may share that drive their views \u2013 and what I may be blind to, that is the shadow side of liberal actions and positions.<\/p>\n<p>My coming clean with her was a huge relief. I did not feel judged or viewed any differently.\u00a0 She graciously said that I\u2019m only human.\u00a0 <em>And<\/em> the experience was a lesson, about being in a leadership position. As casual and un-authoritative as I generally am, I feel a responsibility to conduct myself with more discipline, in what I say and how I say it \u2013 especially during our group time. I am grateful for the sense of <em>myself<\/em>, that I\u2019ve come to at this point in my life. I trust in my own basic goodness, which gave me the courage to admit what I\u2019d done and express my regret. The connection I felt with her was completely separate from our political views. Our views aren\u2019t the entirety of <em>who we are<\/em>. Our views can matter greatly to us, but on another level, they are just our views. It felt open hearted &#8211; we were receptive to each other, as two women who share the love of watercolor.<\/p>\n<p>I woke up today with the first sentence of this Rumi poem in my head:<\/p>\n<p><center>Beyond our ideas of right-doing and wrong-doing,<br \/>\nthere is a field. I\u2019ll meet you there.<br \/>\nWhen the soul lies down in that grass,<br \/>\nthe world is too full to talk about.<br \/>\nIdeas, language, even the phrase \u2018each other\u2019<br \/>\ndoesn\u2019t make sense any more.<\/center><br \/>\nThere\u2019s so much judgement and talk about what&#8217;s \u201cright\u201d and \u201cwrong\u201d in the world. I believe we do need to be engaged in our society \u2013 our common life. At the same time, I have an aversion to the polarization in it &#8211; which seems to be increasing. I can\u2019t bear to listen to much of what is said &#8211; even by the pundits on \u201cmy side.\u201d So much of it is inflammatory and divisive. I\u2019ve been taking myself off email lists and being careful about what I read &#8211; and how much. It just upsets me. There are those who are called to be fighters \u2013 and to them, I say: \u201cyou go!\u201d But go be <em>effective<\/em> &#8211; I am not interested in anyone\u2019s rants. As for me &#8211; I\u2019m not a good fighter. I\u2019m <em>so<\/em> not at my best when I get riled up. I\u2019m here to be a connector. I\u2019m called to stay in relationship and increase my capacity to hear what\u2019s being said \u2013 as long as it\u2019s honest and thoughtful, and I can share too.<\/p>\n<p>But what I really want to do is just make art together. If Rumi thought that the world was \u201ctoo full to talk about\u201d in the early thirteenth century, then it\u2019s certainly so today. The purpose of our groups is to paint, to share our creative lives, encourage each other\u2019s unfolding as artists. To do this, we need to stay connected. And in stretching ourselves as we paint on our Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays, there are plenty of \u201cright\u201d and \u201cwrong\u201d voices in our heads as it is! To some, this may appear as burying my head in the sand. But it is really not. It is a service to everyone to still the waters as much as we can. Cultivating wonder and delight is life-on-the-planet-affirming.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4637\" style=\"width: 495px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4637\" class=\" wp-image-4637\" src=\"http:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16.jpg\" alt=\"I'm being disciplined and painting all the leaves before the treat of painting the peachy petals.\" width=\"485\" height=\"485\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.lifeinfullcolor.com\/dev\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/hibiscus-WIP-9-27-16-200x200.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4637\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I&#8217;m being disciplined and painting all the leaves before the treat of painting the peachy petals.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>There are some translations of this Rumi poem, that use the word \u201cgarden\u201d instead of the world \u201cfield.\u201d Last Wednesday nine of us found our way to a garden \u2013 back down to Filoli down in Woodside \u2013 to see what was there in the early autumn. The parking lot was half as full as it was in April, when spring was on full display. I felt a profound peace when I walked into the garden, that was a balm to my nervous system. The espaliered apple trees that I last saw in covered in white flowers and pink buds, were filled with deep red apples. There were cabbages and peppers and bright orange zinnias. Ever my favorite, the roses were still showing off. I captured a perfect image to paint of strawberries. It was lovely to share this experience with each other.<\/p>\n<p>Belonging is a human need. Nothing good happens without it. One of my most closely held beliefs, is that we <em>all<\/em> belong to each other \u2013 every single one of us &#8211; even those who don\u2019t believe this too. \u201cThey\u201d belong too. <em>Really<\/em>. I wonder what would happen if we were all able to live this way? It\u2019s my hope and prayer that, though the progress is slow and imperfect, this is where we are headed.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s my privilege to belong to <em>you<\/em> \u2013 I so appreciate how you receive me.<\/p>\n<p>With my love,<\/p>\n<p>Cara<\/p>\n ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Listen to this post: Where we live in Marin County, California, it is a sea of blue \u2013 political blue. 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